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Hi, I’m Selomé!

I help creative, sensitive people get their money sh*t together without shame.

I overspent, under-earned, and avoided my bank account like the plague.

I tried every budgeting system on the internet, but nothing stuck. Now I coach people through the stuff that actually works.

[Apply to work with me] or find out more

HOW TO WORK WITH ME

Want to work together?

I offer a few simple ways to get support with money, with zero fluff and no shame.

✨ Money Intensives

Short, focused support for when you're ready to actually do something about the thing that's been keeping you stuck.

A two-week deep dive where we focus on one specific money problem, figure out what's really going on underneath it, and create a practical path forward that works for your actual life.

You'll get a deep-dive session, an integration session, and bounded support between calls.

I'm opening a small number of spots soon.

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✨ Free Workshops

I've taught a few workshops about the emotional and practical side of money for creative people.

Want to get a feel for how I think about money?

Watch the most recent one here Transform Your Money Beliefs

ABOUT ME

I’m not your typical money coach. I didn’t get here by studying finance, or working on Wall Street. I was forced to get my sh*t together after making a series of disastrous mistakes with my money.

For a long time, I looked like I had it together. I was good at my job, paid my bills on time, even had a spreadsheet or two. But underneath, I was stuck in cycles of overspending, burnout, people-pleasing, and quietly panicking every time I checked my bank account.

I was convinced I was bad with money.

I thought I just needed more discipline to finally “get serious” about money, but I was wrong.

What actually helped?

Slowing down. Learning to notice what was happening in my body before I made financial decisions. Getting clear on what I valued and how much shame I was carrying that wasn’t even mine.

From that place, I finally built habits that felt like support, not punishment.

[ If you care about credentials: I’m certified by the Center for Financial Social Work, trained in deep somatic and nervous system tools through Elementum Coaching Institute, and recently completed the Trauma of Money certification.

(TL;DR: I know the practical and emotional sides of money—and I won’t try to fix you with a budget template alone.)]

Now I help other sensitive, creative weirdos do the same.

I’ve also made just about every money mistake in the book, so nothing you bring will shock me.

Here’s what I know:

You’re not bad with money.

You’re not lazy or behind.

You just haven’t been offered a system that actually works for what you value.

If you're tired of white-knuckling your finances, spiraling after every impulse buy, or wondering why you “know better” but still feel stuck. I'm here for that sweet spot between emotional healing and practical action.

I’ll help you understand your money patterns, calm your nervous system, and create a plan that actually feels doable (and maybe even fun??).

Whether you're trying to save, spend, earn, or rest with more ease, you don’t have to figure it out alone.

CLIENTS SAY:

“I feel like I am finally in the driver's seat of my financial decisions. My relationship with money is healthy, my values are clear, and my financial boundaries are strong. I no longer feel scared, I feel empowered.”

- Blanca

“I no longer fear looking at my accounts and am more resilient about money-related issues. I have my own small business and find it easier to state my prices to people. I feel capable of creating the financial reality that I want.”- Annie

“I highly recommend Selome's services to anyone struggling with anxiety ('this freaks me out'), paralysis ('I don't want to deal with this'), or lack of clarity ('I don't really know how it works') in this area. After three months of weekly calls with Selomé, I am not freaked out, I have clarity as to my current financial situation and what I am working towards”- Louisa

“I knew that before I jumped into my next role, I needed to reframe my decisions and relationship with money due to a past influenced by trauma and lack. Now, as I navigate a new chapter in my career - it is with a permission to dream in abundant and expansive ways as I build out responsible budgets and strategies for all that I want to bring in. Most importantly, with the understanding that I deserve it.”- Tati